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I've always been a really affectionate person. I love hugs, cuddles, hand-holding...the works. In my previous relationships however, this was often very limited for various reasons. For one, I just could not afford to be seen being affectionate with someone in public, partially for fear that my parents would hear wind of it somehow (Harare …
I once listened to a sermon on relationships which was so impactful that I’ve never forgotten about it to this day. In fact, a recent experience I had served to reinforce and remind me of this message so powerfully. I had this one friend in high school; we were so close guys. Inseparable. It felt …
One of the biggest pressures for getting into a relationship can be being the single friend amongst other taken or occupied homies. I was having a conversation with one of my friends a few weeks ago, who said she thought she was ready for a relationship, and was missing all of the cute gestures and …
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A big thing for me in any of my relationships is trust. I sincerely believe that trust is something which is earned and not something which anyone is immediately or inherently entitled to. Particularly for our generation, trust seems to be a very shaky topic of discussion. I think this is also because it’s impacted …
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We’ve all heard about him. The man who has been dating his girlfriend for years and years with no sign of a ring in sight. I was sitting in a cafe the other day when I heard him. His friends were chatting and laughing, talking about their escapades with women, as single men do, …
